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Miss Diablo's FAQ
Below are some of the more frequently asked questions and queries that can answer all burning questions before submitting yourself...
'What do you offer?' I offer large a range of strict Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism (see what I offer) practises but I also love to indulge in very sexy and sensual sessions. My favourite sessions are the more sadistic, cruel impact filled with very encouraging appraisal and seductive teases throughout. But give me a soft mommy latex worship session and I’m more than in my element. So, whether it be light tease and ties; restrained body worship or heavy impact play, adhere to the ‘how to contact me’ page correctly and I’m sure I can come up with something to satisfy you greatly. Do remember, although I want to cater to your every desire, I don’t need to, and my greatest pet peeve is being disrespected with demanding behaviour. Remember respect is key.
'What you do / What is domination to you?' First of all I am a dominatrix; by googles definition I am a woman who seeks to dominate her partners through phycological and physical sadomasochistic encounters. Now, although that is pretty true, for me there is a whole lot more to that definition. I like to say I offer **sex therapy** of course not taking away from my title as a dominatrix, but we all have desires and needs that are not met in day-to-day life that need attending to and fulfilled in order to grow. It brings me real felicity to sit discussing and finding out the of details these needs and doing my best to indulge those deep desires. Aside from the filthy fun, these sessions enforce personal value, good communication, consent and open conversation. Furthermore, as a non-binary person, I couldn’t find anything more fulfilling than educating all clientele on gender pronouns, the importance of respecting these values and stopping any spread of misinformation. Finally, I like to add and enforce submission is special given gift, it is not a toy or means to my personal pleasure. It is not something to taken or abused. There must be a good foundation of open trust and conversation to begin any dynamic but above all respect is key for both parties. A dominatrix is not your personal kink dispensary, and a client is not a toy to play with, both have personal needs, boundaries and emotions that must be respected. **Sex therapy doesn’t mean sexual intercourse - note I do not offer any sessions that include intercourse, genital exposure / worship, touching of my gentiles and exchange of fluids**
'What are gender pronouns / What are your pronouns?' Gender pronouns are words we use in association with a person’s gender identity. They can be gendered (he/him/his she/her/hers), Non-gendered (they/them/theirs ze/hir co/cos per/pers) and Nonbinary pronouns (they,them,their ze/hir). My pronouns are they / them and within sessions I enjoy the following: miss, mommy or daddy.
'Do you see clients with disabilities / Is your premises accessible?' Absolutely yes, I am happy to see anyone and cater entirely to any specific needs. All I ask is you send me a detailed email or message on how I can make your experience as comfortable as possible. Whether this be having aids provided or just having me aware of your day-to-day personal needs. My chambers are up a flight of stairs, this being said I am more than happy to move all equipment to the ground floor and set up there. I want my space to be accessible for everyone. Upon entering the ground floor there is a slight step – please state in your enquiry if you require a full accessibility report.
'What do you expect from your clients?' Respect, manners, no haggling and organisation. When we engage you will always be treated with the upmost respect, I don’t care for desired degradation and submission from the first interaction, we are equals until we enter the play space. I do however expect complete respect and manners always, it doesn’t take much. Not respecting my fee and attempting to haggle will get you nothing but ignored and blocked. There isn’t another line of work you would back and forth attempt to haggle on hourly rates, don’t disrespect me with attempting to do so. This is a luxury service and very much in demand. Being organised will get you extra brownie points and in high up in my good books! Approaching with multiple times / dates you’re available, messaging with more than a day’s notice if needing to rearrange and ensuring your remaining fee is in cash – are all ways of earning a face sitting…
What are your session days and hours? I work Tuesday – Friday, 1pm until 6pm. I don’t work Mondays, nor do I offer evening / night sessions, and this isn’t something I’m willing to budge on. I am however happy to cater to weekend sessions with at least a week’s notice upon request.
'Do you offer paid mentoring?' Unfortunately, not. I myself am learning every day and although it is beyond flattering that people want to meet and learn from me it’s not something I feel comfortable in offering just yet. I would like a few more years of different experiences before I begin that chapter of my life.
'Are your premises accessible for someone unable to drive / via public transport?' Yes, my chambers are located in Hoole, Chester. A short walk or cab from Chester train station.
'What length of booking do you offer?' I am happy to offer anything from 1hour to overnight. I do not offer 30-minute sessions.
'Do you offer sessions for couples?' Absolutely I do, sessions with couples are just double the fun. Before we arrange a session within a couple, I do like to exchange with both in group chat to ensure the trust and communication is really there / both are just as eager as another!
'What aspects of control please you?' In the world we live in there are so many distractions in our daily life’s. It’s not so much the control as it is having one’s full attention. Within session it’s just me; you (fully at my mercy), your heightened senses and the building tension for what’s to come…
'I’m not into pain; can I still book in?' Of course, sessions are bespoke to you, a huge misconception is that domination is all corporal and lacks sensuality. I say, as long as you respect my hard limits, and our interests align (see what I offer) then I’m sure I can put something pretty sensational together for you!